A day will come when you think yourself safe and happy, and suddenly your joy will turn to ashes in your mouth, and you'll know the debt is paid.

Monday, December 15, 2014

Solitude: what is this and how to attain it?

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In this intricately connected world, it is difficult to find solitude. And it is necessary that one must, from time to time. We in India are blessed that most people do not give a negative connotation to solitude, unlike in Western cultures where it may be equated with loneliness, sadness and anti-social tendencies. After all, solitude is extolled in our epics and our scriptures.

The benefits of solitude are many. It helps improve concentration, and thereby increases productivity. One is able to work more effectively and in lesser time. It provides time for you to think deeply about yourself, your work and your environment and helps think through problems more effectively and creatively.

Solitude also helps you think deeply about yourself and your relationships and thereby enhance the quality of your relationships. You may come to appreciate relationships more after you have spent time with yourself.

Which is not to say that one should give up one’s world and take to the Himalayas in search of peace. There are many small steps we can take to help ourselves.

Try switching off from distractions you can do without. Try to switch off the TV when you are watching a mindless sitcom and use that time to think about yourself, your day, your relationships, anything. Take time off from the incessant beeping of phones and messages. Just be.

See if you can get up 30 minutes earlier than usual and spend time with yourself, doing things that you like doing. It could be meditation, or gardening, or walking. Or again, just be-ing.

If you are studying or working on a project at home or in your office, shut that door. People may be taken aback if you are not used to doing this, but they would respect it soon. Tell your loved ones, or your colleagues that you are going to need that solitude.

Successful people actually mark off time on their calendars for solitude. It doesn't have to be long. Any time that you can spend alone with yourself to meditate, focus, relax, create and think deeply, is better than no time.

So, reboot your life in the coming week. Have a nice Monday!

New Load Shedding Schedule effective from second of Mangsir 2011 (2071-09-02)

It's not new to Nepalese people that the load shedding hours gets increased in the winter, as the rate of flow of water is less compared to summer. Hence, Nepal Electricity Authority (NEA) has issued the new schedule effective from 2nd of Mangsir, 2071.

Here is the new load shedding schedule for Kathmandu:

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If you want to download the full load shedding schedule in the pdf version then click here

And Happy Load shedding fellas. Stay warm, stay cozy.

Sunday, December 14, 2014

Do we need these suggestions every time?

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"Looks like you've put on more weight than the last time I saw you. Why don't you try some pilates? Or yoga?"

"Babe, you are so short! I heard there's a swimming class starting in school. Why don't you join it?"

Ever heard yourself advising your fat or short friends along similar lines? No, you wouldn't call them 'fat', you'd call them 'healthy'; you wouldn't call them 'short'; you'd call them 'petite'.

You are offended because I called them fat or short. After all, you're their well-wisher. They probably nodded their heads with a wry smile & thanked you for your suggestion. But, does it ever occur to you that they might be offended by your advice? That they're so fed up of hearing different advices from every well-wisher that your advice is nothing but a constant reminder of their imperfection to them? That their imperfections bother them so much that they must've already tried all those suggestions with no results only to give up hope? That perhaps their imperfections have been passed on to them genetically & there is nothing they can do to change the way they are? That your well-meaning suggestions & advices may hurt them more than their imperfections? That you could just shut your mouth for once & offer your advice when asked for?

Perhaps, they don't want you to wish them to be any different. Does it ever occur to you that you could just love them for what they are?

Thursday, October 23, 2014

The mystery murderer

The clock struck two. The strong wind brought the rain and the chilliness of the stormy night through the open window. He saw the shadows of the forest through the glass pane while the howls of the jackals were heard between the long and low rumbles of thunder.

The police surgeon gulped down another puff of smoke and stared at the wall. He enjoyed thinking about death and life during the short intervals between autopsies. After all, the post mortem hall was the best place to think. The joy of unraveling the mystery behind the death of strangers was priceless to him.
He threw the cigarette stub onto the floor and got up from his chair. The corpse was laid onto the table. He checked his log. That was the thirteenth autopsy since that morning. Whenever more than a few strangers chose to end their misery on the same day, the surgeon had to stay back all night.
“How many bodies are there yet to be seen?” he asked the assistant.
The assistant was removing the blood stained cloth which covered the young man who lay motionless on the dissection table. There were jars on the shelves, filled with liquids of different colors. He sterilized the chiseled knives and bone saws and placed them on the side stand.
“This is the last one,sir,” the assistant replied.

The surgeon walked towards the table with a sigh. He put on his gloves and took the scalpel in his hand.
The incandescent tube flickered once.
“The body was collected from the lower depths of the valley. By the looks of it, it is at least three days old, sir. The police have registered an FIR. The identity is not known,” the assistant informed him,after a glance at the case sheet.
“Another idiot jumping off,” the surgeon muttered.
“No suicide note was recovered, sir,” the assistant said and thought of discussing the matter further, but he kept his thoughts to himself. He was just as tired as the police surgeon.

The surgeon looked at the corpse. He placed a rubber brick behind the neck to lift the torso and placed the tip of his scalpel at the neck. He softly pressed the scalpel into the body and cut through the chest till the navel. The assistant held the shoulders as the surgeon took the chiseled knife and made a horizontal cut between the two shoulders. Drops of blood that oozed from the wound resembled a big “T” in the white body.

“Hmm, the blood is still warm, which means the time of death is assessed wrongly,” the surgeon told the assistant. He inserted his fingers into the open woundto probe further. The skin ripped apart like an old-fashioned waist coat. He paused for a moment to look at the organs. The lungs and the heart were cocooned inside the ribs. He took the scissors in hand and started to cut the arteries
Suddenly, a small cry of pain was in the air.The surgeon lifted his face and looked around. What he saw last before the lights went out was the look on the face of the assistant, who lifted his shivering hands towards the table.

Darkness filled the hall.
There was an eerie silence for a moment. The surgeon frantically shouted to the assistant to switch on the emergency lamp at once. A growling sound followed by a loud thud of breaking glasses startled him. As his body started to shake, he desperately tried to lean on the wall to avoid falling.

Lightning struck outside. The surgeon got a glimpse of the room and his face went pale as soon as he saw the sight before him: the assistant was lying on the table, his neck snapped and head dangling down from the table.
The surgeon fell down as if he was paralyzed. The next flash of lightening left him a visual that remained in his eyes till he took his final breath, a few moments later.

The corpse, on which he was working a few moments earlier, was standing facing the wall. The drops of blood from the tip of the scalpel formed a pool of blood right beneath his feet. He wrote the number thirteen on the wall and turned his face to smile at the surgeon.

Surgeon bit his tongue in fear and fell down clasping his chest, never to get up.
The jackals waited outside for their new master.

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

What does a guy want? A relationship, simple as that. What does a girl want? Let's just be friends.

Though, we didn’t talked much but we were clear on our sides, at least I was. She just wanted to be friends but on the other side I wanted something more than that. I wanted what every guy wants from a single, pretty girl, a relationship. Simple as that, I thought.

If you have been thinking understanding Einstein’s theory of relativity is difficult, you haven’t met a real girl yet bro. There are numerous equations going in a girl’s mind. For example: she takes care about what other girls are wearing, she has to do her daily chores, she got to engage in gossip once a day, she has to listen to her parents, she got to take care of themselves and etcetera, etcetera. And In the mean time if there is any time left she wants to destroy with friendship. I mean Kudos to theirs multi tasking skills but friendship, really? I mean why waste time with friendship and esp. friendship with boys, when they can have serious relationships.

Girls are always the one who complains about this guy is not serious, he is not committed and bla bla, when it comes to serious matter they say and I quote,” Why destroy this friendship with relationship”? I mean there is ship in both of these words and however this ship gotta sink. So, why not try now? But no. They want friendship, they share everything with their so called best friends, and slowly that best friend develops a feeling for her but in the end it does not matter because of two reasons. One is he is already friend zoned and next is she will already be going out with the P-O-T smoking, messy haired, non serious type of guy and when they break up ( and they surely will do) she will be saying and I quote,” All the guys are same”.

Well, you know what? The guy who really liked you or maybe loved you secretly, cared for you, never interrupted when you were talking was your guy but you chose the wrong one and you think everyone is bad.

Saturday, October 11, 2014

Expectations and Reality, What is the silver lining?

Does it ever happens to you that when you are going through the toughest or maybe the worst phase of your life and out of the blue life showers you with opportunities and happiness. You see a glimpse of hope. Then everything around you turns good, you feel good. You think Life is not so miserable. We start to grab those chances and slowly but steadily we progress. But, we do not know what is planned for us. And when we are just a stone’s throw away from reaching the peak, we feel something moving, something not good.

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 The avalanche destroys all of our hopes, all of our expectations, all of our efforts and progress we made in that time. And we come back to the initial point where life betrayed us and showed the glimpse of hope to us. All of that hard work was useless we may think, but my friend the problem is we expect more. The Expectations increase exponentially but reality is a constant. Reality has its own pace. We will discuss about Expectations Versus Reality in our next post. 

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